Ok, my turn…
True friends will love you and be there for you, even when the majority is against you. In the midst of a storm you see who are your true friends and who are only fair weather friends.
Jesus taught us that we need to be more concerned of our own problems, not the problems we consider others to be causing. So when did my life’s decisions become between God, me and those who feel the need? I’m curious when people felt the need or the right to step into God’s role and judge? I’m certain He can handle it on His own. You needn’t worry or take it on yourself. I’m sure you have your own worries and difficulties to handle. I know I certainly have enough of my own that I needn’t feel led to interfere in yours unless asked by you to do so.
It is my life’s motto to do as Jesus said and treat others the way I want to be treated. I’d simply NEVER look at people with the same hostility, or tear them to shreds like I have been. Jesus wouldn’t either. He was compassionate and loving, especially to those who felt least deserving. I can pretend people don’t bother me, but maybe you should know how you do make me feel. I wouldn’t think causing people great emotional pain would make you proud or Jesus proud. People stare, whisper, glare, outright make fun, say hateful things behind your back or to your face. They’ve treated me like a leper, like I’m wearing a scarlet letter. I even been called “Delilah”! I’ve been humiliated, hated, and scorned; It has crushed me, made me want to hide, made me want to cry, made me angry. But more importantly it has taught me how not to treat people. It has made me confident in who I am. It has drawn me ever closer to my Lord. People are so cruel, but Jesus simply loves. You can take everything from me, but you can’t take Jesus’ love from me. It matters not to me if you love me – only that Jesus loves me. “Stone” me if you are so perfect to do so, but ultimately I know Jesus loves me and that’s enough for me!
It’s no wonder people gravitate to other faiths. Not because of Jesus, but because of the horrible ways they’ve been treated by those who are supposed to be examples of Him. I’ve never seen any other faith devour and cannibalize their own as Christians do. Jeepers, so unlike Jesus! Buddhists act more like Jesus that Christians do! Why do we preach “Jesus loves you” if we don’t practice it as His self-proclaimed examples? I do believe that church shouldn’t be a members only social country club where you have to measure up just to belong. I’ve always understood it to be God’s house where anyone is welcome to come and spend time with Him! It is lovely to fellowship with like minded people – but so not the reason for going. I go to church only to spend time with Jesus. Nice people are simply a bonus. How sad that people sometimes aren’t welcome in God’s house, not by God, but by Christians. It shouldn’t matter who is or who isn’t there, our focus should only be on God. If it matters to you, then your focus isn’t on God, the only leader!
Please don’t judge me. That’s God’s job not yours. Stop being the opposite of what He’s taught or how He’s treated people. He’d simply NEVER treat me like a lot of you have. You just simply don’t know me or have tried to. Jesus does. He’s much more qualified than you, so stop it! You’re awful examples. I pray no one ever treats you like I’ve been treated.
Thank you to the few and far between who have been so gracious and kind and Christ-like. If you are reading this – God bless you! You make Him proud. You may not agree, but you are so graciously kind. You get Jesus…you make Him smile. And to the true friends – you make life bearable! You are God’s gifts to us. Nothing compares. You are treasured like gold! If only I could repay you in some way. -Melissa
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You tell us that we aren't being like Jesus, Do you think that you are being like Jesus?? look in the mirror do you think that Jesus would be having an adultress relationship?? You guys can try to throw the bible at everyone you want. But you won't be able to ever justify what you are doing. You know that you are wrong in God's eyes. You do a good job of taking the emphasis of your wrongs and trying to make other people feel bad, but where in the bible does God say, sleeping with another woman's husband is ok.If this is being judgemental then so be it. Dale you spent years in the probation department telling people that drinking and using drugs is wrong, were you also being judgemental just because you were telling them the truth?? When you are wrong the truth is supposed to hurt. The scarey thing is that it doesn't seem to be hurting you at all, you just make excuses and put the blame on other people. One year ago if someone close to you had an affair, wouldn't you be telling them what they were doing was wrong? Wouldn't you be telling them to repent and turn from their sin? You said that the brand of christianity that you were a part of was so closed minded what brand of christianity embraces adultry?Your blog said "where did Dale go?" Thats a good question? Where did Dale go...
HHHAHAAAHhhhaaahahhhhhhaahhhhhHHHHHHAhhhhhhhhaaaa! What a joke! You got it right Scrapper.
"It is my life’s motto to do as Jesus said and treat others the way I want to be treated." HahhaHHHAAA!HHHHHHAAAAAAhhhaaaa!
You are kidding right?
You are both morons.
well gee whiz doc how many cereal box tops did you have to send in for that phd? Someone obviously sold it to for the bucks not because you earned it for intellectual accomplishment. You both are just dumb as in low smarts.
You want no one to judge what you are doing which is wrong according to the bible so you judge them because they have the nerve to call you wrong. the only one who shows you real chritianity is the ones who don't tell you you are doing anything wrong. Typical christian excuses that you are right and everyone else is wrong.
By the way not counting copies of replies you only had 5 replies. If you had even fewer replies before maybe no one reading what you wrote dummy! Way I hear it is bunches of people liked the church and put up with you to be there for Jesus. You aren't missed just lotsa people glad you are gone. They will have a nicer life now just like you told them to.......doc.
Melissa, if you only knew how those who remain builders of something beautiful for Jesus, which once included Dale, weep for you. Our family doesn't judge you. We are sad. We know how Dale can wound those who trust him, with their lives, with their children's lives, because he was lovable and we believed that although he wasn't perfect he was sincere (which he freely admits he was not sincere with us at PF in this blog)
Other little eyes looked into his and trusted him. Other young hearts were destroyed because he betrayed them. Not long ago one of the little ladies at PF gave Dale a hug and whispered, "I love you." in his ear. She cries too, for the man who said he was a friend but betrayed her Savior, Jesus. Other little voices ask their mommies and daddies, "Where is Pastor Dale?" The only thing I hear them answer is, "He isn't here anymore." Their voices are sad. Their eyes blank with grief. Please know that there have been other younger women who caught the eye of Dale Haight and he hurt them terribly. When your turn comes to cry, we will cry with you and your children who will bear your wounds with you. If Dale had a love for you as deep as he claims, he wouldn't be able to bear the thought that what he is doing with you now imperils your soul. The soul of the person he says he will give everything up for. Our prayers for you and Dale are not for judgement but for restoration as the Bible offers it.
Also, Melissa, I want to thank you and Dale. You have taught me a valuable lesson. I am running from every sin in my own life like the devil himself is chasing me. I don't want to be an ungodly example to my loved ones or see them pay for my sin, some of which I have ignored for years as they grew a stronghold in my life. If you could take a peek inside PF these days you would see wholesale repentance of sin, the confessions of dozens of saints standing in front of the body crying and confessing and stopping the sin that had stopped them for so long from fulfilling Jesus' dreams for us all.
We are not spending our time gossiping spitefully about Dale or you. If someone brings up your names it is to say how sad we all are or how it hurts to see Trudy traumatized as she recounts all the ways that she loves Dale, her husband. We long to hear the good news that this nightmare is over and you are both repentant and free.
Look up, Melissa, Jesus can come any moment now. We want you and Dale to be raptured with Jesus.
Happy Heart, that was the first honest, from the heart response Ive come across. Most are just simply cruel and bitter. I do wish more people had the courage to tell their names. Be proud of who you are and how you feel. I understand people's feelings. I agree that Jesus wouldn't have an affair or commit adultry. But King David did and he still found favor with God. I do believe that is because God saw David's heart and how much David loved God. Wrong is wrong, i agree. David and Bathsheba did go on to have wise King Solomon out of a wrong relationship. That you can't dispute. I most wish people could understand my story. My emotionally tragic past. I was married to a very emotionally abusive man for 12years. He wouldn't allow me to part from him, without fear of bodily harm to those I love. He is considered dangerous by authoities. If I didn't do what he wanted, he went so far as to cheat on me to punish me. He has sabatoged vehicles. At one point, he even cut break lines. I lived in such fear of his punishments and I believed his lies that I couldn't make it on my own to the point that the only way out for me was to repetatively try to commit suicide. Each time God rescued me. I'm very allergic to penecillen. I took a whole bottle. Nothing happened. I knew it was God, but God just didn't understand. I couldn't bear it anymore. So i continued to take entire bottles of medication. He continued to rescue me. I even gave my ex-husband the permission to strangle me to the point of passing out. He knew I'd overdosed and gladly partook. I knew it was irresistable to him and believed that the combination of overdose and action would surley succeed in my death and escape. God again saved me. I did pass out and suffured a broken blood vessel to my left eye and a severe headache, but I was alive after comming abruptly to and flailing for my life. I cried to God, "no! You must take me! I can't stay in this relationship. Please God! How can you make me stay?" I tried more overdoses, tried cutting my wrists, tried driving my car into a telephone pole. Still God saved me. One such time,God actually appeared to me. I awakened and thought, "No! I'm still alive". I was so dissapointed. He appeared. I couldn't make out His face. The light was too pretty and bright. It didn't hurt your eyes, it was lovley actually. But what I could make out from the light was His hand on the leg. I didn't get the impression that it was an angel. I got the impression that it was God himself. He impressed upon my heart, " are you done yet?" . Then, he showed me His love for me. It was like love I've never felt before. It was such compassion that the word awesome fails to describe it. It was peace like I've never felt or imagined. So overwhelming and intense. You just have no idea. Then, He dissapeared from sight, but I still felt it all. I went to sleep for hours upon hours. Noone can ever take that experience away from me. I KNOW God. If I am so unworthy to people, then why did God continue to save me? He knows the beginning from the end, correct? Why did Judas succeed in suicide, but not me? Why did God patiently save me over and over and even show up and show me His love and compassion if I'm so horrible? God is so loving and compassionate and He loves me! You just can't take that away from me. I lived with an evil man for 12yrs, who wouldn't hang onto a wonderful and God loving man? You are right that the way of going about it was wrong, but i feel like God blessed me with Dale. I know that the statement will elicit more nasty responses, but I have no problem being real and honest with people. I'll discuss my thoughts in hopes that a bridge of understanding and compassion can form on all sides. Maybe that is a rose-colored view of life, but there is always hope.
Sinceley, Melissa
P.S. I've known Dale since I was 8, not 5. My mom was best firends with his first wife Debbie. I spent alot of time with his kids at their house. Jamie was the first friend I ever made at the Christian school. Jamie made this shy girl in a new school welcome. Much appreciated! So, they were long time family friends. Dale and I's relationship didn't come from counciling, it came from years of friendship and lots of conversation over the phone and an enormous amount of common views on life. It just wasn't from the way you think you see it. But I suppose it is futile to explain, people think what they want because sometimes the truth isn't what they want to see. I truley don't understand the anger or bitterness i am seeing. Why do people take this so personally? I can understand those immediatley involved, but the others I just don't yet understand.
Melissa~ This is Dale's Daughter in law Amber Zwald a.k.a. "Scrapper"...I do believe that God loves you and Dale both deeply, he longs for you to choose the right path in your life. Taking another woman's husband is not the right path and will never be the right path. Jesus too pointed out the sin in peoples lives not in judgement but in love. I too want to reveal the truth to you that it is not God who gave you Dale, he would never give another woman's husband away to another. That is a sick way of thinking and I am truely sorry that you are so miss led. Again I say to you, where in the bible does this become ok?? What you and Dale have chosen to do has broken a family, I have lost some one I held close to my heart and was always eager to see. Just because you were treated badly by your husband and just because you survived by the grace of God does not give you the right to steal ones husband. You both are decieved in you lust and lies. I seriously do not wish to judge you I just can seem to figure out why you both think that this is ok and that this is not living in sin?? You and Dale are not married and yet you live together, what type of example for you children are you setting??? Dale is a married man, what are you showing your daughter to do?? You covet what is not yours! I only wish to see you both restored and that eyes are opened to the truth. Jesus loves you beyond belief, you must not love him in the same way, because you wouldn't continue to break the father's heart by living the way you are. I long to see Dale restored in his walk with the Lord and with his wife. You are not his wife, God hates divorce and it seems to me that you desire it. You desire Dale to be divorced. If you truely loved Dale you would release him of an ungodly walk and return him to his wife. If Dale truely loved you, he would walk away and not let you continue to live a life of sin. People don't judge you they are simply telling you the truth! Dale taught me well, and I am doing what I was taught to do! Speaking the word, the word of Life. The truth is life giving not life taking! If you truely seek God you would know that this is not the desire of his heart. God greatly desires to restore a marriage to what it was, to restore a family to the loving caring family it once was. We all are so eager to hear one day that this is all over that Dale has turned from his sin and has given his life back to Christ. When we live in Christ we are so eager to please our father! I want to please my Father, when I sin I know it and I ask for forgiveness...Im living life as God intends and I am only trying to bring him Glory and I know that the Father is looking down on me and is with me saying well done good and faithful servant. I choose not covet anyones husband but I choose to seek Jesus daily and learn everyday how I can show God's love in me to others. I say to Melissa seek the Father, know the Father only wants what is best for you, he only longs for your eyes to be unvieled to the truth...May God reign in your house hold may God bless you all of your days, and may you seek to live the life that God intends!
PS...The things that I and others have said make you mad and hurt because thats what happens when we hear the truth...sometimes it hurts, knowing what we are doing is wrong and having people tell us the truth can be a hard pill to swallow....
Hello Melissa - I don't know you personally but I have attended PF for about 7 years.
As I read your letter you made one comment that stood out to me. You said " Please don't judge me, its God's job not yours ". Melissa I do not have a doctorate in theology but as I read the scripture's ( Matthew 18:15-20; 1 Corinthians 5:11; 2 Thessalonians 3:6, 14-15 ) by Jesus and Paul's instructions I am commanded too judge you. I have been in church when Dale went through the steps in Matt. 18:20 and explained them.
I truly am concerned about your and Dale's salvation. I pray daily that you both will repent, honestly and truly seek the Lord and his restoration. He is a wonderful God and his Grace is all comsuming, sufficient and his forgiveness divine. All we need do is repent and seek his will. I do know this from first hand experience for I'm a sinner that has felt his wonderful grace.
I do not write these word with a spirit of hate but a spirit of love and concern for your salvation.
Jim Gillette, Jr.
I am a total outsider looking in - and am aware only of this situation as another pastor that used to live in the area - both of you - Dale and Melissa - are more concerned with being in the center of Jesus' love than being fearful of His judgment....a note from the Apostle John...
1Jn 1:6-8 If we say we have fellowship with him while we walk in darkness, we lie and do not practice the truth. But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus his Son cleanses us from all sin. If we say we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us.
The Truth is not in you as you nonchalantly try to 'live your new life - and love new adventures' but are only mocking the Biblical God of the Scriptures by your lives - go ahead, talk all you want - but you actions speak so loudly that we CAN'T HEAR WHAT YOU ARE SAYING!!!
Oh - and just in case you think that God is not being mocked....
Mat 7:15 "Beware of false prophets, who come to you in sheep's clothing but inwardly are ravenous wolves.
Mat 7:16 You will recognize them by their fruits. Are grapes gathered from thornbushes, or figs from thistles?
Mat 7:17 So, every healthy tree bears good fruit, but the diseased tree bears bad fruit.
Mat 7:18 A healthy tree cannot bear bad fruit, nor can a diseased tree bear good fruit.
Mat 7:19 Every tree that does not bear good fruit is cut down and thrown into the fire.
Mat 7:20 Thus you will recognize them by their fruits.
Mat 7:21 "Not everyone who says to me, 'Lord, Lord,' will enter the kingdom of heaven, but the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven.
Mat 7:22 On that day many will say to me, 'Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and cast out demons in your name, and do many mighty works in your name?'
Mat 7:23 And then will I declare to them, 'I never knew you; depart from me, you workers of lawlessness.'
You both are workers of lawlessness and have shamed the name of Christ - may God have mercy on your souls.....
Melissa, Did you cry with Jamie and Tracy when Dale left their mother to die so he could marry your teacher? Did you and your Mom cry with Debbie Haight? And now your going to do the same thing to Trudy that she did to Debbie? Pay back time? Melissa, I'm soooo afraid for you. Aparently Dale's been rescuing u for years: he likes thinking of himself as personal savior. Ur a real feast for his overindulged ego. Uv gone from one controller to another. Have you thought about whatll happen when he's tired ov you? I'll bet theres already lots of times when you don't know where the guy is or what he's up to. It's all part of the pattern, Melissa. He'll tell ya one lie after another. After a while you wont no whats truth. Sounds like ur alredy a little confused talkin about Buddha and all. I pray you get urself out of this situation before its to late.
Ok, let me respond to some of your comments. This is Melissa, by the way. Jim has responded with alot of scriptures, but is missing a very important one. Matthew 7:1-5. "Judge not, that you not be judged. For, with the judgement you pronounce you will be judged, and with the measure you use it will be measured to you. Why do you see the speck that's in your brother's eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye? Or how can you say to your brother, 'let me take the speck out of your eye', when there is the log in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother's eye." Jesus said these words. Which of you is really blameless enough to tell me whether or not I am going to Heaven or has a relationship with God? Seriously people, this is not your job. I know enough Christianity and Bible to figure it all out on my own. Please don't worry about my salvation. It is and only ever will be between me and God. I appreciate your concern, but please stop telling me how wrong you think I am. I'm a big girl and can figure it all out on my own. If I want help, then i will ask. Thank you. I'm sorry that you see me as bad friut, because I happen to be a very nice person. I am very kind and honest.Wait, I've left myself open for scorn. Yes, in this circumstance I was unkind to Dale's family. I am sorry for that. I love God more than anything on earth and that you can't take away from me. I am not hurting you in anyway, so please just have enough respect for me as an individual to let me simply co-exsist in this town. I simply do not understand why Dale's life is so important to you all and why you concern yourselves with it with such tenacity. I am talking only to non-family here. Really, don't you all have more pressing things in your lives to concern yourselves with? I was asked if my mom cried with Debbie? Did you? My mom happened to stear away from their friendship because she didn't agree with her choices she was making. That was then and this is now. Let the past remain there. Haven't we all been through enough? When will you simply let it go. God throws our forgiven sins into a sea of forgetfulness. I am grateful He is my God! Tender, Trudy was never my teacher and you spelled Tracey's name wrong. This shows how close you really are to the situation. Not very!I do know where Dale is and never question. How crazy is it that you presume to. All of the bitter, unkind statements about Dale make me wonder if you understand forgiveness? Did you pretend to be a friend to him? Smile and wave, but now say such awful, unkind words? Seems very unhonest of your deepseeded feelings. Fair-weather. I'm very tired of unkind people, most of which claim to be right with God Christians. Do you lie? Swear in anger? Gossip? Are you really without sin enough to tell me how bad we are? Buddha- have you researched or do you just talk about what you don't know- like Dale's life? Buddha was a neat guy with some very Biblical principals, like Abraham Lincoln. Am I going to perish in hell because I respect Abe Lincoln too? Are you all talking from definate knowledge of Dale or rumors you've heard along the way. Rumors are the most unreliable truths. I know you are smarter than to believe them. There are a few partial truths and many elaborated false statements you all are getting bent out of shape over. Other than family, why are YOU taking this personally? Why does this matter SO much to you that you make this your fight? A case of small town boredom I fear.
Sincerley, Melissa
I just also wanted to know something, you all say how I am not right with God. If that's true, then can someone tell me why God keeps answering my heart's desires and he keeps evil from harming me? If what you all say is true, then why does God continue to bless me each and every day? Why do things I never dreamed would ever really happen for me, happen? I can not tell you the blessings that continue to occur for me. I feel God's love for me each and every day, stronger and stronger. I'm not imagining it, ask my true friends, near and dear to my heart, they will tell you. Again, I must ask, if I'm in such danger of hell, if my salvation is in such jeopardy, then why would God, who knows the beginning from the end, have continued to save me from trying to commit suicide over and over again? He didn't save Judas. I believe you need to rethink the way you think God loves His people, even those who sin, but love Him with the very depths of their heart and soul. He loves me even more than I love my children and there is always room for me, no matter how I fail. God is love! He revealed His love to me! You won't change my mind! I saw and experienced Him and His love. I may not be worthy of anything to you, but I am to God! Early last year, Don Riechter spoke a word over me while praying. He said that I was God's beloved. God knows our lives from beginning to end. God still chose to call me His beloved. You can't take that away from me. Try as you may, I know what I know and you won't shake my faith in God's love for me or my salvation with Him. Just thought you should know.
Sincerely,
Melissa
I would love to know when someones going to stand up for Melissas ex, Aaron, in all of this!! He too trusted Dale...He went to many counseling sessions with him. Dale told him he looks at her as a daughter! Aaron was wronged beyond belief by Melissa! She used him then threw him in Jail. Not to mention makes him sound evil on here and she knows all he has ever done is love her and want her truly happy! He told you he would do anything when you moved back in, and you take his kids away? Arent you worried of how Dale now looks at your daughter...Missie? He told Aaron you were like a daughter...you are just a pawn. He will play you too and then what will you have? Aaron admitted to his mistakes, and you stabbed him in the back right to his heart! You are no better than Dale leaving Trudy! Everyone should know Aarons side and how its always about money with you...YES and what you can get! Africa would be perfect right!? Do not believe all she says about Aaron as he would never hurt her...Still loves her even with all she has done to him...AND GOD ONLY KNOWS WHY!!!
Well well I was concerned of the way Melissa ruined her Ex's life!! Her kids...how she only thinks of herself and noone else! How she BASHES Aaron on here but doesnt tell the full truth! I know his side...I have talked to her and I know what the past couple years have been like for them...She stretches the truth as she had a man who adored her...still does and her kids! She has her own issues not him! How can you live with the man for over a month and then have him arrested for something that happened months before? How can you go to bed with him one night...and get up with him that morning then have him arrested? How can you tell him you want him to do things to change he does them all and you stab them in the back? How do you look at your son and deal with the fact that you took him away from his father the man that he loves and needs most in his life? Those are my issue with miss melissa...who really has nothing to do with sweet...honey or a miss...she most certainly is not a saint either!! Dale and her are both manipulating and decieving!
OK, so melissha, I too had an oportunity to have an affiar with a pastor,I loved him, did not know he was married at first. but you know what scared me the most? God's judgement. you see, solomon might have been born, but who was the baby that died? I knew if I did what I wanted to do, and what appeared what he wanted to do, if I got pregnant, the baby would die and I could not bear the thought of that. Also, the church and the man mattered and I knew if I loved him and God, and I did, I could not do it, because it is not love. I will add that you too are a victum, and you are playing it up real good. you are neither sweet nor a honey bee. but I do feel a tad sorry for you. you will suffer in the long run, get out now, please for your own sake, if nothing else, because obviouly you do not or cannot see the hurt you are causing. Mary Roller.
YOU KNOW, I get where you are comming from, I guess maybe some of us took it too personally, maybe like we have too been abused. but I guess I tend to agree with you, thanks for shedding some light on the other side of sour cockroaches story. I have no way of knowing how true it is, but I think really she's immature and confussed. and the truth is that God did make her to be sweet, but somehow she got dammaged. never the less her soul is what is important, I too have to think of that once in a while when I think about the man I love and the fact that he is with a kiniving woman much younger, when I call her Skinny Ugly, because she is.I suppose that is not her fault , but she cheats and hangs all over other men, I've seen it. maybe it will be cockroach that goes to greener pastures and not the other way around. if her husband is who you say he is, he deserves our prayers too. man this is messed up stuff. and Dale should be concerned that he isnt thrown in jail someday soon.
You know is my EX husband aaron johnson in case you all cant see it. He currently spews the same hate about me to my children because they repeat the same words to me. If you believe him, that is sad, but your choice. Until you have walked in my shoes, don't think you know what happened. Ask the city of Warren police their opinion of aaron johnson, i dare you. Ask or look up his record and see his crimes that are on public record. Look up court transcripts and see for yourself. I have nothing to hide. Ask any of my friends their opinions of me and ask them what i went through long before 2007. Let them tell you. I have nothing to hide. My user name is simply the greek meaning of my name, Honeybee. Mock it if you will. Mary, if you feel so sorry for aaron, try getting involved with him and see for yourself. Work from home mom, i don't worship Buddha. I just admire some of his approaches and outlooks in life that match Jesus'. Buddha was a man, not my savior. No worries, I LOVE JESUS! But thank you for your honesty and for being nice. I am done responding anymore. Most people have no desire to be kind while having real heart to heart conversations. And now that my ex is on here spreading hate and twisting truths i have no desire to be apart of this venue of conversation anymore. Thank you for at least helping me understand why everyone takes this all so personally. I get it now, you all loved Dale like a member of your own family. I see now and thank you for your help with that.
Sincerely,
Melissa
You know is my EX husband aaron johnson in case you all cant see it. He currently spews the same hate about me to my children because they repeat the same words to me. If you believe him, that is sad, but your choice. Until you have walked in my shoes, don't think you know what happened. Ask the city of Warren police their opinion of aaron johnson, i dare you. Ask or look up his record and see his crimes that are on public record. Look up court transcripts and see for yourself. I have nothing to hide. Ask any of my friends their opinions of me and ask them what i went through long before 2007. Let them tell you. I have nothing to hide. My user name is simply the greek meaning of my name, Honeybee. Mock it if you will. Mary, if you feel so sorry for aaron, try getting involved with him and see for yourself. Work from home mom, i don't worship Buddha. I just admire some of his approaches and outlooks in life that match Jesus'. Buddha was a man, not my savior. No worries, I LOVE JESUS! But thank you for your honesty and for being nice. I am done responding anymore. Most people have no desire to be kind while having real heart to heart conversations. And now that my ex is on here spreading hate and twisting truths i have no desire to be apart of this venue of conversation anymore. Thank you for at least helping me understand why everyone takes this all so personally. I get it now, you all loved Dale like a member of your own family. I see now and thank you for your help with that.
Sincerely,
Melissa
HA...So sorry my dear NON-sweet Missie...Hahahaha nope it is not your EX!!! However lets discuss what the courts have to say this week about his CHARGES....oh yes the ones that were dropped BECAUSE...ummm your a liar!!! Cause lets think about it any man in their right mind would threaten to hurt their wife if she was sleeping with their pastor...the one that counseled him for YEARS!!! Duh are you really that much of a dumb bitch? To think the first emotion wouldnt be anger?? In my eyes you still got it coming and as Ive told Aaron Id love to just knock some sense into you! Maybe some of these other WOMAN that Dale has tried to sleep with will get thru to you though!
So the big bad police may believe you but the judge saw right thru you! Thank god for that as you ruined the past 5 months for him!! And he doesnt spew any hate for you as dumb as it sounds he worries about you and loves you still!!! So miss thing get over that nonsense...He worries bout his kids and what you have done to them....as they are all that matters to him now!! And yah you do know what Aaron would do for you...move heaven and earth to please you, but you screwed that up! So maybe you should explain to your friends Aarons side also..or the fact that you just hate sex even with Dale, how many times on your lil weekend get away and you couldnt wait to get away from him! However I told Aaron that was just to make him trust you so you could stab him in the back as you so did? You know the funs just beginning...Maybe Dales got a girlfriend too!!! Ha So sorry you were wrong I am not Aaron!!! Tata
Ummmm....wow....as a matter of interest....it cracks me up how the two of you continually greet each entry with your 'Godspeak'. 'Jesus this' and 'God that'....shut UP already. Christians don't get involved with married people - doesn't matter what the circumstances may be...they just don't...so don't get on here touting your Christianity when your behavior couldn't be further. It's not so much what you have done, but HOW you did it....Both of you should be ashamed of yourselves....but hey, what a STERLING example you've set for all to see and follow...what is it??? Oh, ummmm....that old saying...do as I SAY, not as I DO... uhhh yeah..right...whatever...
One last note to you knows comments. There is no fooling the big bad police. They know better than any other legal official how bad someone really is because they have delt with individuals time and time again. They know the history and see the crimes first hand because they are the first ones called and they remember all the incidents. The other law officials don't always get all the evidence or have the time to research the cases since they are so busy with so many things. I wish for one day people could walk in my shoes and then let them be the first to cast stones once they really know where someone has walked and knows what they have endured. You can call me what you'd like, but I'll never stop loving Jesus and that my friends you can't take away from me!
Melissa
Dear sweet Melissa once again you are wrong. The police only know what people tell them which most of the time are lies. It is the judges job to find out the truth and render the correct decision. Which in Aarons case she did. And just for the record little miss know it all the police in warren I talked to like Aaron and think he got a raw deal from YOU but they had to do there job. And wish all you want but nobody wants to walk in your shoes(at least not christians) because your headed for the fires of hell. You live with a married man and claim to be a christain. HAHA!!GET REAL. You talk about everyone casting stones and they should show love and mercy like Jesus. Well Melissa I thought you knew your bible but you must of been absent during some of those lessons or maybe you forgot the most important part of the bible that tells of Gods judgement and how we should fear him. YES MELISSA THERE WILL BE JUDGEMENT FROM GOD FOR WHAT YOUR DOING AND DALE CANT SAVE YOU. First John says you walk in the darkness or you walk in the light. There is no in between with God. Its black and white no gray area. Your either in Gods grace or your not. And right now YOUR NOT!!! So instead of listening to Dale tell you how pretty you are and everything will be okay maybe you should seek Gods word because that is who has the final say. Aaron has told me you love God and know your bible but have you opened it lately? We know you don't go to church anymore because you cant look at the people or is it because your skin crawls when your there? That is the guilt from God because your wrong. Can you even look at yourself in the mirror and be honest with yourself? You tell your kids that the people at church are bad because they jugde you but they have a right. God says to judge by the bibles standards and the bible says adultery is wrong. So they have a right to stand up for Gods word. So heres an idea...... how about you go read your bible without Dale in your ear and tell me what you find out! TATA
That's funny but who else would know that the judge was a female (almost nobody was in the court room) and what " I tell my kids" which I never said, but I'm the no it all? I like how it's assumed I don't read my Bible and I have proof that Aaron Johnson once wrote on his home computer that his skin crawled in church because he felt so guilty about his sexual addictions. I know for a fact that he slept with a married woman several times who lived in Jamestown he met on an adult site because he told me so and I talked to her on my cell phone and have the phone records to prove it and neighbors saw her there at his place! But please twist the truth some more. And only a foolish person would believe either one of us without proof which I have. I refuse to play this game anymore and I will let God sort it out. Last time I checked the Bible it said ALL have fallen short of the glory of God. This has become pointless to talk and I no longer wish to do so. Just wish people would seek the truth and proof and not give into "you Know's" twisted truths and mistruths. Those really interested in the truth, I can get you the proof you need. Thanks for listening.
Melissa
Hello? The court hearing is public record,DUH....As far as Aarons sexual addictions.....Isn't that YOUR fault since you wouldn't take care of your wifely duties?????You make the guy beg and then you wonder why he turns to the computer for porn.Then you make the guy think it is his fault and he loves you so much he tells you he will go away and get help so you put him in jail before he can....The unbelievable part is even after all this he tells me he still loves your dumb ass and it wasn't your fault.You say Aaron slept with a married woman.Prove it....Show me.Just because you say your neighbors saw some woman at his house or you have some phone records....Well that doesn't prove anything.Can you produce what was said during the phone conversations or did this woman stay all night or even show up at night?....Didn't think so... I have guy friends that stop by my house but that doesn't mean i'm sleeping with them...The only one twisting the truth is you and everyone one here can see that.Your the one living in sin with Dale not Aaron.Stop by anytime and check... you won't find any women there. why? Cause his dumb ass is confused he still loves you.Why? Because he's stupid.Your going to wait for God to sort this out???? Guess what God is already sorting this out thats why the charges were dropped.Aaron told his lawyer they were going to win even when his lawyer said it would be hard.Aaron said God told him not to worry so he didn't.GOD 1 Dale and You 0. Aaron told me he found God in jail again that he admitted his sins and asked for forgiveness.Unlike you Aaron is in Gods grace now.Yes he sinned because like you say everybody falls short of the glory of God,but unlike you he didn't keep sinning and now no matter what bad things you say about him God will protect him.So Miss Melissa you better watch out cause your on the wrong side now.You keep telling everyone to check things...Well check and see if Aaron is going to church every Sunday...even after all the bad things that have happened to him..HE LOVES GOD!!!TATA
Not judging . Just wondering. If you Know you have hurt Dale's family why wpuld you conntinue?
I met you once at wegmans. I was a member of the praise band felt i finally found my. Spiritual home the first day i came to pf when dale sang over me my theme bible verse. Phillipians 1:6 " he who began a good work in you. Will complete it. This has been surreal for all of us.i still cry about it . Thete arre alot of prople sufferring overt this eith unrrsolvef emotions. We all make mistakes. Im thevbiggest offwnderr.we fail, but jesus never fails. Hes always waiting with open arms for me and for you. John linza
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